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Hey, Hey, your favorite podcast host is back. It's your girl,
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Nick Marie, and I am so excited because Season four
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of the Nick Marie Radio Show is officially here. We're back,
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we're refreshed, and we're stepping into this new season with intention,
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joy and a whole lot of purpose. If you're new here, welcome.
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If you've been rocking with me since way back, you
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already know. This show lives at Nick mariradio dot com
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and it started as a simple idea back in January
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twenty eighteen. I didn't have a full blueprint. I didn't
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have a production team. I had a phone and a
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voice memo app and a desire to create a space
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where real talk, real energy, and real stories could live.
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I went from recording episodes on my phone to different
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podcast spaces to now sitting in a full studio at
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ninety point three WHPC, hosting shows, doing the Recess Belt,
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and connecting with my Nasau family live on the air.
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It has been a journey from the beginning. I wanted
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a place where people could feel seen and heard, even
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on the days they didn't feel like their best selves.
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And now here we are stepping into January twenty twenty six,
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and this show is still that space, just elevated, expanded
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and aligned with a deeper purpose. This has always been
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a safe space, a space filled with good energy, real conversations,
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and a whole lot of heart. We laughed together, we've
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learned together, We've healed through some things together. And every
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time I sit behind this mic, I remember why I
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started this podcast in the first place. Connection, purpose, honesty,
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showing up, real flaws, growth and all. And I never
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truly left the mic. I've been doing live and recorded
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shows at ninety point three WHVC, from morning shows to
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the recess bell to an assaw mix, keeping the vibes high,
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keeping the music flowing, and talking to my Nasau County
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family every single week. Radio will always be in my bloodstream.
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But this space right here, this podcast, this platform, this
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is where I get to talk to you, beyond the clock,
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beyond the playlist, beyond the time limits, no rules, shout
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out to FCC, no filters, no rushing, just conversation, truth
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and connection. And here's the best part. Not only is
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season four of the Nick Marie Radio Show starting, but
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Season two of The Balancing Act, Highs, Lows and Lessons
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is already underway and you can check that out at
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the bactpodcast dot com. And if you want to see
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what we've already been talking about over there, just head
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on over. You can scroll through the topics and episodes
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on the feed. I started a blog there. We've been
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getting into some real, vulnerable, necessary conversations, especially about mental health.
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So if you've been wondering where I've been, what I've learned,
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and what's coming up next, You're in the right place.
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Season four is all about growth, gratitude, reclaiming purpose, and
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getting aligned. I'm stepping into this mic more grounded, more intentional,
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and more centered than ever before. So welcome back to
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the Nick and Murray radio show. Let's get into it
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all right, So let's start with life, because listen, life
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has been lifing in every direction between being a wife,
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a mom, a radio host, a mental health advocate, and
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an assistant director of financial aid while still trying to
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be a human being who needs rest, joy, laughter, and peace.
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I've been learning what balance actually looks like, and trust me,
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it does not look like perfection. It's not a tidy checklist,
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it's not a straight calm line. Balance is messy. Balance
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is flexible. Balance is learning yourself over and over again.
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My work in higher education definitely keeps me grounded. Every
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day I'm helping students figure out their next steps, you know,
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walking families through the financial aid process, and seeing how
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access to education can literally change lives. That purpose works
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for me, but I had to learn that purpose can't
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run on an empty tank. You can love what you
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do and still need rests. You can be grateful and
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still need a timeout at home. There's been growth there
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as well. Marriage is a beautiful classroom full of patience, partnership,
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forgiveness and learning each other even when you think you
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figured it all out, and parenting ooof parenting will humble
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you and heal you at the same time. Our kids
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remind us what's truly important, presence, laughter, messy moments, and
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real memories. Through all of this, I realized something big.
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Balance isn't about perfection. It's permission. Permission to show up honestly,
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Permission to ask for help, permission to slow down, permission
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to not have everything figured out, permission to breathe. Okay.
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Season four is landing at the perfect time because I'm
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walking into it with a much clearer understanding of who
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I am, what I value, and what I need. Season four,
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I'm ready for it. I definitely took a moment because
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I went through some challenges where I felt very alone.
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I felt unsupportive in this industry, and I just needed
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a moment to step back. So October of twenty twenty one,
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I believe was my last episode. And the reality is
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I had great guests, unforgettable guests, but I really needed
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that moment just to breathe and build. I finally finished
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a manuscript for my book, my motivational book, and twenty
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twenty six just I'm predicting a lot of great things
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to come. The Balancing Act season two I definitely needed this,
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probably more than my listeners. Now you know, I couldn't
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stay away from my baby, The Balancing Act highs, lows
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and lessons. It's a mental health podcast and I definitely
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wanted to keep that going. So Season two is already
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in motion over at the b ACT post cast dot com,
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and if you head over to the feed, you'll see
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the topics we've already covered. We've been talking about real life,
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the parts we usually keep to ourselves. That show has
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been a healing space, not just for listeners, but for
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me too. It's therapy without calling it therapy. It's honesty
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without judgment, it's vulnerability without fear. We talked about burnout, people,
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pleasing boundaries, identity, talked about grief, love, fear, starting over
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when you swore you were done, starting over. The dms,
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the messages, you know, the I needed this today, the
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voice notes, they mean everything. It means. It reminds me
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that people are craving honesty. People want softness, People want
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to know they're not the only ones feeling overwhelmed, confused,
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or in transition. I definitely had a lot of emails
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from different people that want to be guests. So I'm
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getting to that for twenty twenty six. The last few
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years just have stretched me mentally, emotionally and spiritually, and
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the Balancing Act has been a place where I could
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just kind of excel, you know, and process in real time,
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a place to say, yeah, today wasn't easy, but I'm
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still here. If you're curious, you can check out past
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topics and episodes on the speaker feed and at the
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batpodcast dot com. And then here we come to season
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four of the Nick Marie Radio Show. Because that same
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energy of honesty and healing is woven into this space too.
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Mental wellness isn't just a talking point, it's a lifestyle,
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checking in with yourself, resting without guilt, saying no without apology,
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choosing peace even when chaos feels normal. Both shows are
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moving with clarity and intention, especially for season two and
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season four. The last few years, like I said, it's
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been just a whirldwin. These last few years have been
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one long masterclass. I learned that slowing down isn't about quitting,
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it's choosing clarity over chaos. I learned that you can
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love your career deeply and still need time to unplug
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and rest. I learned that gratitude is a lifeline even
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when life does not feel gentle. I learned that no
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is a full sentence, not a debate, not a negotiation.
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And I learned that perfection has never been the requirement
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for impact. Most importantly, I learned this your voice matters
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even when it shakes. There have been moments where I
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have definitely been in rooms speaking and I could just
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feel the shaking in my voice sometimes that it seemed
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like it was lack of confidence, but my voice still mattered.
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You know, at the end of the day, your story
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matters even when it's still being written. Your worth is
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not conditional or negotiable, and someone out there needs the
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version of you that exists right now, not the polished
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version you're working toward, not the when I get it
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all together version that you that is growing, learning and
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trying again. I have had moments where I wanted things
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to be perfect, and so that also made me take
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a step back. And I was also going through mental
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health challenges. So I mean it, just like I said,
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these things you have to learn. You know, you have
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to learn that someone out there needs to see that
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you're not perfect. All these filters and everything else, snapchat whatever,
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people just want to see real realism. If you're listening
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and you feel stuck, if you're questioning your timeline, if
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you're wondering, if you're behind, you're not. You're evolving, you
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are becoming, and you are right on time. And this season,
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we're gonna walk through that together. We're gonna talk about it,
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we're gonna unpack, we're gonna laugh through it, We're gonna
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cry through it if we need to, and keep it going. Now, listen,
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it hasn't all been deep reflection in soul work. I've
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been having the fun too. We've got some visuals coming
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up for this season four, you know, updated branding, fresh
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content ideas, a whole new vibe for Nick mariyradio dot
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com and everything connected to it, and getting featured in
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magazines and digital platforms. Now, that was a real look
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at God moment. It reminded me that consistency, faith, and
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obedience will definitely take you places. I've been collaborating with
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other creatives, learning new skills and planning ways to make
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this show more interactive, more behind the scenes content, more
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video clips, more moments where you're going to feel like
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you're right here in the studio with me and of
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course my WHPC family. You already know that station helped
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change my voice, That studio helped change my confidence. That
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community helped shape the kind of host, creator, and storyteller
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that I've become. Radio is my heartbeat, I you know,
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it's where I learned how to bring moments to life
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with just a microphone and a message. So in this season,
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expect more fun, more laughter, more storytelling, more personality, more everything.
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Season four is about to hit different and the best way.
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We're diving back into relationships, you know, boundaries, identity, self esteem,
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my motherhood, career shifts, healing, purpose, reinventing yourself, becoming who
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you are and not what other people are telling you
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to become. We're bringing back real talk moments, listener questions,
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reflection promptsh We might even do a couple of recess
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bell recaps, mental health check ins, of course, storytime segments,
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and maybe a few surprise announcements along the way. There
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will always be honesty. There will always be laughter here.
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There will be episodes where you have to pause the
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audio and say, Okay, that was for me. This show
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is a community and your voice matters here. So send
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your questions, share your stories, tapping with me on social
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media at NICKI Marie Underscore Radio and let me know
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what topics you want to hear about and what guests
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we should possibly look to connect with. Before I close
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out the premiere episode, I just want to say thank you.
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Thank you for listening, thank you for growing with me.
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Thank you for your patience, your love, your messages, your reposts,
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your dms, thank you for allowing me to evolve publicly, privately,
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and everything in between. If you take anything from today,
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let it be this. You can pause and still make progress.
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You can rest and still be worthy. You can begin
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again as many times as you need to and still win.
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Your story is still unfolding. Give yourself permission to turn
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the page. Stay connected with me at nick mariradio dot
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com and follow me at nick Mari Underscore Radio on
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social media for updates, behind the scenes, clips, and news
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about both shows. Season four of The Nick Mari Radio
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Show and Season two of The Balancing Act Highs, Lows
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and lessons at the bactpodcast dot com. New episodes are
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on the way and I promise they're going to be
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full of inspiration, truth, joy and growth. This is the
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Nicky Marie Radio Show where real stories meet real growth.
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Welcome to Season four. Let's make it an unforgettable season.